Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving!



"Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made Himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to death -- even death on a cross!" - Phillipians 2:5-8


What are you thankful for?

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

September 2009

September proved to be a busy month for our family. We celebrated three birthdays (Caleb's, my niece's and my step-father's), started school, and started up a small group at our house.


Caleb turned 4 years old on the 2nd. Erin took pride in the cake, as she helped make and decorate it.

Arianna turned 4 months in September, and decided to stop sleeping through the night. Thankfully, we've finally been able to get her back on somewhat of a schedule.

We're studying astronomy in Science this year so it was only fitting that the children make their own solar systems. They're to scale, I believe. Daddy helped them with this project.





Thursday, November 19, 2009

Our New Dog

Did I tell you we got a new dog? Well, we didn't really buy this dog. It turns out he'd already been living with us for about four years. We thought his name was Caleb, but we found out he prefers to go by the name James. Here's James sleeping. He likes the floor.

And here's James after he got into a fight with our other dog, Judah.

Just kidding! We think he got bit by some kind of bug. This happens quite often. His eye or ear swells up, we give him some benadryl and it goes away after a couple of days.


But, as you can see, it doesn't seem to bother him.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

August 2009

Since it's been a while since I've blogged, I thought I'd catch you guys up on what's going on in our lives.


In August of this year I was blessed with the arrival of 2 nephews! Unfortunately, I only have pictures of one of them. That's going to have to change soon! This is Noah and his sister Nadia....oh yeah, and his parents, my wonderful in-laws. What a happy family.


This is my sister-in-law, Abby, holding Noah. Abby is the mother of my other nephew, Leland. He's a cutie too. Why I don't have a picture of him, I'm not quite sure!


And this, of course, is Arianna. She's still growing like a weed....

....and loves to suck on her two middle fingers.

And this is my friend, Deanna. We've been friends since high school, but lost touch for a while. She's so awesome that she decided to find me again, and we were able to get together one last time before she left the country. She has a really cool job where she gets to travel a lot. The downside: I won't get to see her again for a couple of years. Thank God for email!


Stay tuned for some more picture updates in the days to come.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Mommy's Little Helper

I have had some rough days lately. Arianna has made it a regular occurrence to wake up 3 or more times a night. I'm thinking it has to do with teething, but I'm not quite sure. That makes for a grumpy mommy! So you can imagine my pleasure when I stumbled across some sanity.

Let me start at the beginning. The dinnertime rush is always my weakest moment when I'm tired. Trying to make dinner while dealing with a baby who wants to play with mommy, listening to children bicker, all while tidying up the house always results in disaster. My breaking point usually comes right around the time daddy walks through the door. Poor daddy, as he usually receives the brunt of my frustration.

While reading some of my favorite blogs a couple of weeks ago, I came across a recipe for homemade play dough. It's not that I haven't seen a recipe for this before, it's just that I had never thought to make it for my kids. Why hadn't I thought to make it before? Let's chalk it up to "mommy brain" and move on, okay?

I actually ended up not using the recipe from the blog I found, because it required dirtying more dishes than I wanted to dirty. It was right around dinnertime and I didn't feel like making more dishes to clean. I searched the internet for a recipe to use and came across one from my favorite
Food Network personality: Alton Brown. I quickly made it and introduced it to my children. Here's what they thought:


(excuse his messy hair, he had just awakened from his nap)


The kids were occupied for well over an hour, and they only stopped because it was time to eat. They have played peacefully with the dough for the past three days. I wonder how many stress-free nights this little helper will give me....hopefully many!

If you want to make your own dough, here's Alton's recipe:


mix 1/2 cup of salt with 1 cup of flour, 2 tablespoons of vegetable oil and 1/2 cup of water


I had to use about 1/2 - 1 cup more flour than the recipe calls for, so you might need to add extra as well. And you can color the dough with food coloring or kool-aid (the unsweetened kind) but be careful that you don't stain your clothes, counters, hands, etc. After the kids enjoy themselves, we put the dough in a plastic bag and stick it in the fridge where it waits to rescue me once again. What a frugal toy!

I'm sure the newness of this play dough will eventually wear off. Do you have any other frugal toy/game/babysitter suggestions for when the inevitable occurs?


This post is linked to Frugal Friday.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Homeschooling Help - Part 2

In the first part of this series we tackled the issue of homeschool curriculum. I shared with you what we're doing with our children and told what I liked and didn't like about each book. In this part we will address the thought that curriculums are expensive.

Homeschool curriculums can be expensive, but they don't have to be. And this is where you, as the parent, get a chance to be creative. Take a look at the books you want to use with your children. Turn the list into two lists: one for the books you HAVE TO use, and the other for the books you WANT TO use. When choosing our books, here were my lists:

HAVE TO
Horizons Math Teacher Guides
Apologia Science Textbook
Mystery of History Textbook
Explode the Code Workbooks
Easy Grammar Teacher Guide
Leading Little Ones to God

WANT TO
Horizons Math Workbooks
Apologia Science Journal
Mystery of History CD-ROMs
Explode the Code Teacher Guides
Easy Grammar Workbook
Right Choices
My ABC Bible Verses

The goal is to find a good deal on the "Have To"s and, if you find a great price and it fits into your budget, buy the "Want To"s as well!

The way I pared down my "Have To" list was to decide which books were absolutely necessary to success of the school year. Did I need the math workbooks? No, as long as I had the Teacher Guides (which contain the text from the workbooks in smaller type) I could use our chalkboard or a notebook for the book work, the same with a science journal and the Easy Grammar Workbook. If we had the money for the workbooks would I find them beneficial, yes, but we were trying to spend as little as possible for our books this year.

After you've made your lists, look into the homeschool conventions in your state. Our state has two conventions (that I know of). There's the HEAV convention in Richmond and another convention at the Dulles EXPO Center. On a side note, I would highly recommend attending your states homeschool convention. This year was the first time we went, and we were blown away by all of the encouragement and resources you find at the convention.

One of the gems at the convention is the Used Book Sale. There is a charge to attend the homeschool convention, but if you just want to attend the sale, you can usually get a discounted price. We were able to get a lot of books from the book sale. We bought Mystery of History, the Teacher Guides for the Horizons Math curriculums, and an bunch of readers. What did we spend? We were able to purchase the Mystery of History textbook and CD-ROM for the price that we would have paid for the textbook alone! We also only paid $3 for the 2nd grade math Teacher Guide and $5 for the 3rd grade one. $8 for two Teacher Guides that would normally cost $40 each. All in all at the Used Book Sale we saved quite a bit and were also able to purchase a few more things that we weren't planning on buying.

Another great place to save is PaperBackSwap. If you love to read and haven't heard of PaperBackSwap you're missing out. The way it works is you post books on the website that you are willing to part with. When someone wants your book you ship it to them, which usually costs around $2-$3. When you find a book you want, you request it and someone ships it to you. So, for around $2-$3 you can have a gently used book. I have been able to get some of the Horizon Teacher Guides from PaperBackSwap. Talk about savings! You can also look there for readers and any other book you want. When looking for homescool Teacher Guides, you will, most likely, have to put the book on a "Wish List" because those types of books come and go pretty quickly. If you are patient, someone will eventually post the book. I recommend thinking ahead and putting all of the books you want on a "Wish List" right away so that you have them by the next school year.

The last way to save that I want to talk about is Swagbucks and Amazon.com. If you are unfamiliar with Swagbucks, go here for a more detailed explanation. If you are familiar with Swagbucks, but haven't joined yet, what are you waiting for? Since joining in January of this year, we've earned $65 in Amazon.com gift cards. And the even better news, Amazon.com sells many of the books that you might be eyeing to purchase for your school year.

I hope this has encouraged you in your quest to make homeschooling affordable. If you would like some more frugal tips, visit Frugal Friday over at Life As Mom.

*Full Disclosure: The Swagbucks and PaperBackSwap links are affiliate links, so if you shop through them, I will get swagbucks and/or PaperBackSwap book credits.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Ooops

I guess I'm going to have to start up this again tomorrow!

Arianna has not been sleeping well, and last night was BY FAR the worst night to date. Not thinking, I turned on the computer right after breakfast and there goes my good habit. Oh well, on a positive note, I was much more productive yesterday and the day before by keeping the computer (and TV) turned off.

There's always tomorrow.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Life as Mom: Get a Good Habit Going! Challenge



Jessica over at Life as Mom is hosting a challenge that I am joining and encourage you join as well. It's titled "Get a Good Habit Going!" and begins today. She has a great post up on why she decided to start this challenge, and here's my post on why I'll be joining her and what I'll be doing.

I'm pretty much in the same boat as Jessica - house and life in shambles, we'll just call it PBS (Post Baby Syndrome). But she's worth it, don't you think?



That's why my good habits revolve around getting my house in order. For my first habit I've decided to stick to a schedule. I'm going back to Little House on the Prairie days and assigning certain tasks to a day of the week. I plan on trying this new schedule out for the rest of the month, to get an idea of whether or not it works for us. Here's my schedule:

Sunday: Planning (menu, coupons, etc.)

Monday: Bathrooms

Tuesday: Floors/Shelves (vacuum/sweep/mop and dust)

Wednesday: Laundry and Baking

Thursday: Bedrooms and Errands

Friday: Kitchen

Saturday: tackle anything that I wasn't able to get to during the week

We will still do a basic clean up every day, but this schedule will remind us of the main chore for the day. Along with the schedule, another habit I would like to put in place that will help bring some order to my life is to remain electronics-free until after I put the kids down for their naps. This means no computer and no television until after 1 o'clock. Now I don't spend much time watching TV in the morning, but I do occasionally watch the news. The computer, on the other hand, is like a vortex, sucking me in and making time disappear. I think we will all benefit from my morning-long electronics fast.

There are many other habits I'd like to form, but these are the two I plan on tackling this month. If I'm successful, who knows, maybe I'll add two more to my list for next month!

Do you have a habit you'd like to start? Why not join Jessica's Get a Good Habit Going! Challenge?

WalMart Deals - Time to Stock Up!

There are some really great deals at WalMart this week! I was able to stock up for Thanksgiving and Christmas for not much money at all. Here's the scoop:

Campbell's Cream of Chicken or Cream of Mushroom Soup, 10.75 oz - $0.58 each - use the $1.00/2 coupon here or the $0.25/3 coupon from 09/20/09 Smartsource insert and you can get them for anywhere from $0.08 to around $0.50 each

Swanson Chicken Broth, 32 oz. carton - $1.49 each - use the $0.50/2 from the 09/27/09 Smartsource insert and you can get them for $1.24 each

Carnation Evaporated Milk, 12 fl. oz. - $0.78 each - use the $0.50/2 coupon from here or from the 09/27/09 Smartsource or the 11/01/09 Red Plum to get these for $0.53 each

Crisco Vegetable or Canola Oil, 48 fl. oz. - $2 each

Great Value Butter, 16 oz. - $1.50 each

Stove Top Stuffing, 4.8 - 7.2 oz. - $0.78 each

Betty Crocker Potatoes, 4.8 - 7.2 oz. - $0.78 each - use the $0.40/1 coupon from here or the $0.25/1 coupon from the 10/04/09 Smartsource to get these for anywhere from $0.38 each to $0.53 each

Duncan Hines Cake Mix, 14.2 - 18.5 oz. - $0.78 each - use the $1/3 coupon from the 10/11/09 Smartsource to get these for $0.45 each

Russett Potatoes, 10 lbs. - $2.50

Are you aware of any other good deals going on at WalMart this week? Please share with us!

Friday, October 30, 2009

Affordable Diapers!

Before I began using coupons, one of the largest chunks of our grocery budget went towards diapers. Thankfully I discovered coupons and store rewards programs (Extra Care Bucks, Register Rewards, etc.), and was able to cut the amount we spent on diapers almost in half. The only downside to waiting for a sale that matched a coupon that matched a store rewards deal was that these normally popped up infrequently and there were limits to how many times you could take advantage of the deal.

Well, as you can imagine, I was ecstatic to discover Diapers.com. I had heard of this site before, but every time I checked it out I was less than pleased by the prices. Little did I know that they had special perks for first time buyers. Here's a deal that will get you a ton of diapers for a little amount.

Here's what I did:

  1. go to ebates.com (you can earn 1% cash back by going through ebates first)

  2. at diapers.com I put the following in my cart: 1 extra large case of Luvs diapers, size 4 (180 diapers) and 2 Luvs Ultra Leakguards Jumbo Pack, size 2 (42 diapers each)

  3. check the box that adds the $1.00 Luvs e-coupon on the diapers.com site

  4. my total was $48.97 and I guess diapers.com rounds up because I qualified for free shipping (you have to spend $49 to qualify)

  5. I typed in a promotional code which gave me $10 off - the promotional code you can use is JDHA1594 - this code will give you $10 off your FIRST purchase of $49 or more and this code will also give me $1 credit with diapers.com - as with the free shipping, I was able to use my code even though my total was just under $49

  6. when I receive my order, I will fill out and mail in this form to receive a rebate of $14.97 - with each new order placed, diapers.com gives out a free subscription to "Parenting Early Years" magazine, you can opt to receive the rebate instead of the magazine

My total spent (after the promotion discount and the rebate) is $24 for a total of 264 diapers. This comes out to approximately 9 cents per diaper!!!

You can do this deal with anything that diapers.com sells, but I really needed diapers so that's what I bought. What are you going to buy?

Head on over to Frugal Friday at LifeasMom for some more frugal tips!

*UPDATE: I ordered the diapers this morning, and just received an email stating they are ready to be shipped and I should expect to receive them tomorrow!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Homeschooling Help - Part 1

This past September we embarked on our third year of a formal homeschooling program. Each year I am faced with the responsibility of choosing our curriculum. Thankfully, I have been blessed with wonderful friends who also homeschool. I've been able to pick their brains to discover what worked for them and what was a total flop!

Then the thought occurred to me, surely I'm not the only one having such a difficult time choosing homeschooling materials. That's why I've decided to share with you what works for us. This is going to be the first part in a series titled "Homeschooling Help."



Math: I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Horizons Math. So far I've used it for Kindergarten, 1st and 2nd grade and plan on using it next year as well.








Science: This is our first year using a formal science program. We decided to use Apologia's Astronomy curriculum and are using it primarily with Erin (7) and Joshua (6), but Caleb (4) listens in as well. We've had fun reading the text as well as doing the projects suggested in the book. The kids have enjoyed learning about the wonderful universe God created for us!







History: As with our science curriculum, we also wanted a history curriculum that could be used with multiple ages. We chose Mystery of History and couldn't be more pleased! This year we are doing Volume 1 which takes us from Creation to the Resurrection. This curriculum says it is for 4th through 8th graders, but we have had no problem using it with our kids.






Phonics: I have tried several different Phonics curricula, from Abeka to Horizons and finally to Explode the Code. My preference: Explode the Code, by far! Erin, Joshua and Caleb are each going through their own ETC workbook. I started Caleb with Book A, Joshua with Book #2 and Erin with Book #7. Erin doesn't really need to be going through these books, because she has already learned the rules these books cover, but I figured it would be a good review for her.





Grammar: Erin is the only child doing grammar this year. Before the 2nd grade, they really need to be focusing on Phonics, so I have decided to put off grammar until they reach grade 2. We've used Easy Grammar with Erin. I've been pleased with it, but I think I might try Shurley English next year. I've heard great things about it, and would like to give it a shot.





Bible: We use three books for our Bible class, Right Choices,












Leading Little Ones to God.


I would HIGHLY recommend all three books. Right Choices takes children through different scenarios they may encounter and helps them discern right and wrong choices. My ABC Bible Verses takes you through the life of a little girl who chooses to hide God's word in her heart to help her make good decision. There is one verse for each letter of the alphabet. Leading Little Ones to God puts theology on a child's level and allows for the parent to take the lesson deeper, to accomidate different age groups.


I hope this helps you decide which books you want to use to homeschool your child or children. If you have any favorites, please share them with us in the comments section. I'm always looking for new ideas!

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Welcome Back!

To say "it's been a while since I've posted on here" would be a huge understatement! In fact, if there's anyone around still reading this blog, I'll be surprised. But alas, I couldn't stay away. I've really missed having an outlet to post my thoughts as well as updates on the family and the occasional good deal at the store.

So, for now, I'm back!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Wordless Wednesday




Friday, June 5, 2009

Arianna's Birth Story - A Month Late

So I promised a birth story, and here it is:

On Wednesday, May 6th, I was excited to read that Crystal was going to the birth center to deliver her baby - over a week late. In my mind I was certain that my story would be similar. Now I wasn't going to go a week late, the doctors wouldn't let me, but in order to avoid a c-section, the baby would have to come on its own, and by its due date. Although I faithfully prayed that God would allow me to avoid a third c-section, I dwelled on the thought that "none of my babies had ever been born on time, let alone early." I went to sleep at about midnight that night crying because I was so afraid (and sure) that a c-section would be the outcome of this pregnancy. Thankfully, God had different plans!

At 2:30 a.m. I woke up to the sound of the power coming back on. Apparently, the power had gone out earlier in the night. I decided that, since I was awake, I should take advantage of that time to use the bathroom or else I'd most likely be waking up in another 30 minutes to an hour to pee. As I was heading to the bathroom, I noticed that my stomach was contracting, and that it was fairly painful. With each pregnancy I've had contractions throughout the last trimester that weren't productive at all, so I didn't get my hopes up yet. I went back to be and tried to get some sleep.

For the next 1 1/2 hours I went through a cycle of having painful contractions lasting about 1 minute, finally falling back asleep, then quickly awaking to the pain of another contraction. No matter what position I tried, I couldn't get any rest. I finally decided to get up and walk around to see if that would make the contractions go away. I came out to our living room and got on the computer, after all, I wanted to know whether Crystal had given birth to her baby, and most importantly, whether she had a boy or a girl! After discovering that she had, in fact, had a baby boy, and realizing that moving around had done nothing for my contractions, I went back to bed because I desperately needed some rest.

Unfortunately, I wasn't able to get any sleep because my contractions were about 7 minutes apart at this point. While I was laying down, I heard (and felt) this loud "pop" coming from my stomach. It seemed strange, but the baby was still moving around and there was no liquid gushing from me, so I figured everything was alright. I pulled out the paper that the doctor had given me with the instructions on when to call and determined that it wasn't time. According to their instructions, I was to wait until the contractions were 5 minutes apart for an hour before calling. I figured that, if I was in labor at all, I still had a while.

I was in a decent amount of pain, and could not find a comfortable position. I wanted so badly to wake Jesse up, but knew he needed to get some sleep if he was going to work in the morning. I decided to finally wake him up just before 7:00 because the pain was so bad, I was having a hard time getting through the contractions. I told him that I didn't think it was anything "real," but I was going to take a shower, and call the doctor if I was still having regular contractions an hour later. Since we live over an hour away from the hospital, I figured that even though the contractions weren't 5 minutes apart yet, it would be okay if I called the doctor's office when they opened to see what they wanted me to do.

When I got up to go take a shower, I noticed some liquid coming out of me, but I didn't think too much of it because it was just a little bit, and I had heard stories about women having bladder control issues....I just figured maybe it was my time to deal with those issues! I think I probably took the quickest shower ever, because I noticed that when I was standing up the contractions were roughly 3 minutes apart. When I got out of the shower, I had Jesse call the doctor to see if we should go in.

He quickly jumped in the shower while I packed my bag. I had my bag mostly packed before this, but there were a few other things I needed to grab. I figured I had about two more weeks before the baby would come, so there were still a few loose ends that I hadn't tied up. When he was done in the shower, he called his sister, Tina, who lives next door. He was so casual in the way he described the morning's events, that she wasn't sure if he was serious or not. I think part of his "casual" attitude was due to be not really believing that I could be in labor.

At this point it had been a while with no call from the doctor. Jesse called the doctor again to let them know that we were going to be heading to the hospital and that they could reach him on his cell phone. Jesse took the kids to Tina's while I got ready to leave. Then we took off for the doctor. The only other labor that I had been in a car for was Joshua's. Back then the hospital was only 10 mintues away, and it was the longest 10 minutes of my life. Well, an hour-plus drive was even less pleasant. I remember actually telling Jesse that I didn't think I was going to survive the drive. It was quite painful.

When we finally arrived at the hospital, I went in while Jesse parked the car. A very nice gentleman at the information desk insisted that I ride up in a wheelchair, which I hated! We quickly registered and were taken up to labor and delivery. When we got up to our room, I became quite confident that the loud "pop" that I heard at 4:30 in the morning was, in fact, my water breaking.

The nurses asked if I wanted an epidural and I quickly said "yes." I couldn't imagine resisting the urge to push without one. They hooked me up to an IV and monitors and then called the doctor in to check me. The doctor on call was Dr. Bruchalski. This is the third baby that my current doctor's office has delivered, and this is the third doctor to deliver. He's such an awesome doctor and one who truly loves God. In fact, he prays before every delivery.

When he checked me, at close to 9:00, I was shocked to find that I was already 5 centimeters dilated, almost fully effaced and the baby was progressing down the birth canal! I thought for sure that I'd be lucky to be 3 centimeters because not quite two days earlier, the baby was up about as high as she could be, I was only 1 centimeter dilated and I wasn't effaced all.

About an hour later, the doctor came in to administer the epidural. I was almost 7 centimeters at this point. Unfortunately, she got a wet tap (which basically means she tapped into the spinal space instead of the epidural space and spinal fluid drained). So I ended up getting a spinal instead of an epidural, which meant the medicine could take effect sooner, but would wear off after about an hour and they'd have to give me more.

By 11:00 I was almost ready to start pushing, but I needed another small dose of the spinal. It took enough of the edge off that I was able to push when the doctor needed me to. After about 4 or 5 good pushes, Arianna Jubilee Hall was born at 12:04 p.m.. It was such a relief to be done with the pain, and to know that God had brought me through another successful VBAC!

Hope you enjoyed my story.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Arianna Jubliee Hall - Born on May 7th at 12:06 p.m.

Here are some pictures of our precious little girl. She's three weeks old today. After looking through these it's clear to see how much she's grown up in just the past 3 weeks. Man, time flies too quickly! I'm trying to cherish these moments with her, and she makes it so easy. Overall she's a pretty good baby. I couldn't really ask for anything more, except maybe some more sleep! She's happy and fairly easily consolable. We love her!